Why Two Is Better Than One

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Listicles, I’m playing again! Hi Stasha, long time no see!

Just Jennifer suggested we list 10 reasons why we should or should not have more kids.

As you know, we decided to go the way of more is more, when it comes to children!

With no disservice to my darling Monkey (y’all know I’m crazy mad for him), here’s my list of why we decided to give him a sibling.

1. I grew up with 3 siblings. Yes, there were times when we pummeled the hell out of each other, but I cannot imagine not having them. I cannot imagine not giving Monkey the gift of a sibling.

2. More fat cheeks to kiss, more little hands to hold, more I love yous, more smiles and laughter, more cuddles.

3. Cooking for 4 sounds easier than cooking for 3. I know, it doesn’t seem to make sense, but it will.

4. Monopoly, Scrabble, Settlers of Catan – board games are only fun when you have 4.

5. TWO kitchen helpers – yay!

6. Double fun in the pool. Double fun in the park. Double fun everywhere!

7. It is known that having siblings help children develop social skills like teamwork, empathy, sharing and the ability to comfort others.

8. Monkey will always have a playmate and a friend. And so will his sibling.

9. Siblings = unconditional love, support, friendship and understanding.

10. My arms and heart are meant to hold two children.

Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero. – Marc Brown

How many kids is ideal for you?

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  • November 21, 2011 Kimberly

    Oh so sweet. Though my siblings and I had our ups and downs, I wouldn’t want to imagine not having them in my life. They are my heart. A sibling is a precious gift to give a child.
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      If that’s the only gift (other than the gift of life and love!) that I can give to the two of them, I will die a happy woman 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 Runnermom-jen

    Awww, what a sweet list, Alison! I love the line “my arms and heart were meant to hold two children”.
    XO
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      Thank you Jen. And yours definitely meant to hold 4 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 Galit Breen

    Swooning for #10, sweet friend! xo
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      Stealing a leaf from your book, dear friend! (that of making people swoon, hehe)

  • November 21, 2011 Amanda

    Love this. You may just have convinced me to go for round two! 😉
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      That, makes me happy. 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 Practical Parenting

    My kids have been playing together so much lately. I love hearing the laughter (until someone cries) and watching them teach and learn from each other. I’m so grateful to have my two.
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      I really look forward to those times!

  • November 21, 2011 Stasha

    These are wonderful, so true and scientifically proven 🙂 Love it Alison!
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      Thank you Stasha! I know, it’s definitely scientifically proven 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 Christine

    #7,8, and 9 really ring true! My 4 are so close and always thinking of each other. Monkey will be blessed with a sibling!
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      Monkey’s sibling will be here in May!

  • November 21, 2011 Jessica

    Having two children definitely has it’s benefits (especially with meals and games).
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      And getting the bigger one to teach the smaller one things – like talking, singing, stealing candy 😉

  • November 21, 2011 Kiddothings

    Oh yes, a family of 4 is certainly better than 3. I wouldn’t know about 5 though. I would love to have more kids if not for my hubby’s grey hairs.
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      I’m sure your hubby can be persuaded to live with his grey hair 😉

  • November 21, 2011 By Word of Mouth Musings

    You know, i never knew for sure if i wanted children, then i decided that i wanted four and my husband decided he didn’t want to have any. I guess 2 is the compromise btw 0 and 4 😉 Then he turned into the Dad of the decade and everyone said we should have had twelve – go figure!

    Your list is awesome, my girfriend says she has two hands, can hold two kids and be in control … so two works!
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    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      Two works, yes! Being outnumbered is not my idea of fun 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 tracy

    Awww – I would have 10 kids if I could at this point.

    • November 21, 2011 Alison

      And you’ll be an awesome mom to ALL of them.

  • November 21, 2011 Emilia

    Your thoughts are very heartwarming, I must say. Yay for siblings, nah for kids growing up without a brother or a sister! 🙂
    “My arms and heart are meant to hold two children.” – This is so so sweet!
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Thanks Emilia!

  • November 21, 2011 Mirjam

    Oh I love number ten, that one made me smile!
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  • November 21, 2011 Katie E

    #1 was our main reason that we knew we would always have at least two. We weren’t only children and grew up with all those fun sibling relationships, and wanted the same for our kids! And #8 and #9 – I’m so glad my girls have each other, and so far they’re wonderful to their baby brother. So much fun to see how they love each other!
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I look forward to seeing them love each other!

  • November 21, 2011 JDaniel4's Mom

    I am so glad your arms are going to have two to hold!
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  • November 21, 2011 Anna

    I think that all of us have their “moments” with their sibling, when we just want to be alone not annoyed by somebody. But we all muss confess that every time we need help the first person we ask for it is….we know who:)
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  • November 21, 2011 Mama Track

    Fat cheeks. It’s all about the fat cheeks really. I may have to keep going.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Oh, DO!!

  • November 21, 2011 Jackie

    Alison, you had me at the cheeks to cuddle! Plus, you are so right, there really isn’t like a sibling relationship. #10, perfection!

  • November 21, 2011 KLZ

    Part of why Alex is getting a sibling? He was getting dangerously close to being spoiled.

    But yes to the rest you listed as well.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Ah yes, the being spoiled thing, that too.

  • November 21, 2011 Megan (Best of Fates)

    Sounds like you’ve found the perfect number!
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  • November 21, 2011 Erica M

    This listicle was right on time for you! I’m thinking you could have made it to 50 reasons.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I don’t know about 50, I had to think long and hard to make it to 10 🙂

  • November 21, 2011 Cookie's Mom

    A fellow Settlers of Catan fan! Have you tried Carcassonne? I may be addicted.

    Sounds like the perfect family combination! Wishing you all the best as you prepare for your family of four.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Thank you!

  • November 22, 2011 Eve

    Great list! We don’t have another yet, but we know we will. No reason not to! 🙂

  • November 22, 2011 Natalie

    You are going to be an awesome mom to two! I can’t wait to see Monkey as a big brother!
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  • November 22, 2011 Just Jennifer

    My kids are further apart in age than yours will be, but they still have their special relationship. They play together AND fight. I’m an only child and don’t like it, so I just HAD to have at least 2.
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  • November 22, 2011 Miss Marina Star

    These are a lot of the reasons we decided to have Amelia. Asher was BEGGING us for a sibling and we just felt that it wouldn’t be right to deny him the opportunity to enjoy that special relationship. They adore each other and that’s so wonderful to see.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I can’t wait to see Monkey playing with his sibling!

  • November 22, 2011 Ado

    More fat cheeks to kiss.
    That’s my favorite.
    And isn’t this the perfect topic for you now!? (-:
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      It was timely, yes!

  • November 22, 2011 Kelley

    We weren’t sure we could have a second, so I remember looking up all of the advantages of being an only child. There are some, but I also wanted my son to have a sibling. They are truly best friends now. BTW, I’ve never heard anyone else mention Settlers of Catan. We have a friend that LOVES that game!
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  • November 22, 2011 Robin

    I want another 🙂
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      And so you should 🙂

  • November 22, 2011 Kirsten

    I cannot imagine my life without either of my kids. As far as #7 goes, this is doubly true if the older sibling has autism. Having a little brother who just happens to be a motormouth has definitely helped my firstborn with his language and playskills.

    Great post!
    Kirsten
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  • November 22, 2011 Brittany {Mommy Words}

    More is better in my book. I’ve got three and as you know want just one more for all the extra fun and love and hugs and hey…maybe one more chance someone will support us in our old age!
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      And I wish you luck and lots of baby dust so you can add to your lovely family!

  • November 22, 2011 Jessica

    I love your list! I honestly want about five kids. I know! And, I’m being serious! I grew up with three other siblings and my husband grew up with five other siblings. I want a big family! What can I say?lol.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Get working on it!

  • November 22, 2011 deborah l quinn

    My brother and sister are now my best friends and while yes, it did take us a while to get there, the journey has been worth it. I tell myself that when my two kids are whacking the living daylights out of one another “someday they will be friends, someday they will be friends…” (sort of like Dorothy, “there’s no place like home…there’s no place like home”) I just gotta believe it will all work out. Great list.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Haha!! I guess that’d be my mantra too 🙂

  • November 22, 2011 Mrs. Weber

    Aww, the last line is my favorite part. I wholeheartedly agree with all of this. I can’t wait to give little K the gift of a sibling one day!
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  • November 22, 2011 therobotmommy

    I really truly believed we’d be happy with just one. CP was our world and he may us so happy.
    Then I got pregnant and worried that having another child would ruin what we had with him. Though it’s had some tough jealousy times, it’s been so worth it. And when I look at my daughter I can’t imagine my life without her.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Yay for happy accidents! 🙂

  • November 22, 2011 Amanda Austin

    So sweet! I have a sister and we always got along so well…we still do! It’s a built in best friend.
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  • November 22, 2011 RoryBore

    As I was an only child (the various step brothers and sisters came along in my 20s), I also wanted our first to experience all thinks sibling. Little did I know that “rivlary” comes before “unconditional love”. Ha

    but there is nothing better, or that makes me smile more than when they are all playing and helping each other.
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  • November 22, 2011 Barbara

    What a great list!! I love #10!
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  • November 22, 2011 madge

    awwweee so so sweet. I’m sure you’re the bestest mommie ever.
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  • November 22, 2011 Charlotte

    I agree. As much as my brother and I used to fight when we were younger, we always had each other and we still have each other’s back to this day. He’s the best younger brother a girl could ask for and I’d do anything for him.

    This is a wondeful list and I’m excited for monkey’s sibling, whenever he/she comes into the world 🙂
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I am too!

  • November 22, 2011 jacqui

    It really has been awhile since you listicled! I love that you’re pregnant and Monkey will be a big brother. I’m really happy for all three of you who are waiting for number four.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Yes, it’s been a while, good to be back!

  • November 22, 2011 Missy

    Love #2. Can’t wait to find out what you’re having!
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  • November 22, 2011 Danielle

    I love that not only did you look at this from your point of view but also for your kid’s. I have a lot of siblings and we are always there for each other and it is great to always know they are there. Great list!!
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  • November 22, 2011 My Inner Chick

    10. My arms and heart are meant to hold two children.

    Mama, A, that is beaufully precious. Xxx

    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      Thank you so much!

  • November 22, 2011 Elena

    2 kids are definitely fun! You play settlers of Catan – we love that game!
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  • November 22, 2011 Rach (DonutsMama)

    #2 is awesome. So is #5. Very clever–more helpers!
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I know, I’m brilliant like that 😉

  • November 22, 2011 Christine

    #4! Yay. I just got so excited for Settlers of Catan with 4 people!
    You will love having two children. In fact, it seems you already are loving it 😉
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      I’m loving it yes 🙂

  • November 22, 2011 Life As Wife

    My favorite one? “My arms and heart were meant for two!”

    I agree! I have two arms for a reason!!!
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  • November 22, 2011 Carri

    So sweet. 🙂 I’m only meant for one kid. Trust me.
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  • November 22, 2011 Desperate Housemommy

    #10. I recall thinking that when I had The Twins. And then I went and had a third. I have yet to grow that extra appendage, but it’s still working out ok.
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  • November 22, 2011 Mommy2¢

    See, now when you put it that way…
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  • November 22, 2011 Jessica

    Yes, you listed all the reasons I wanted my second munchkin! Now if only I could decide about a third…

    Great list!
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  • November 22, 2011 Lola

    It’s funny, I ALWAYS knew I’d have at least 2 children. It was a no brainer. But I DO remember looking at the first “professional” Sears Family Portrait that I had taken of my sons at ages 3 and 6 months and thinking “Wow, there’s an empty space in this photo…” and not just because the photographer sucked and didn’t center the image. That’s when I knew I wanted THREE.
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    • November 22, 2011 Alison

      That’s an interesting way to find out you wanted 3!

  • November 23, 2011 Heather

    #3 makes me laugh. And I’d want more than one child for the opposite of #1- I don’t have any siblings and it still makes me sad!

  • November 25, 2011 Leighann

    Very sweet.
    When you know, you know.
    I know we will have more children. My heart has room for more.
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  • November 25, 2011 Jen Has A Pen

    I was an only child, and I can’t imagine not having two kids. The interaction between siblings is so cool to me. My cousin/BFF has 4 kids and I could listen to their banter all day.
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  • November 27, 2011 Julie

    A family of four feels right for us too. Hopefully we can get around to making that even number soon. So excited for you guys!
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  • December 1, 2011 tom m

    as many as i can have! love kids they are alot of everything.i just need a woman to bear them.lol

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